5 reasons you should ditch your vibrator for a crystal dildo

August 10, 2016

 

Crystal dildos are aesthetically beautiful and inconspicuous, offering women an alternative to the run of the mill vibrator, which lets face it has been done to death. For those of you who haven’t come across one before, a crystal dildo is a smooth wand shaped pure organic crystal that comes in all sorts of sizes and colours. What crystal dildos offer a woman is less about the porn industry and what we are told women want, to what women actually require from a sexual experience. It is an offering of exploration, deeper understanding and acceptance of ones sexuality, sexual desires and self.

 

This sexual tool is beneficial to all women (and men), especially if you have fallen out of love with yourselves (or haven’t yet learnt to love yourself), for the ladies experiencing numbness and loss of libido (trust me, if you have been using commercial sex toys, you may not even realise how de-sensitised you have become over time), and to every other woman under the sun, the crystal dildo is here to help you. Here is why 21st century women are ditching their commercial vibrators and opting for a more natural and intimate alternative.

 

 

1. A mans penis doesn't vibrate

 

This is a total no brainer. Vibrators generally vibrate at varied speeds from that ‘electric toothbrush’ kind of vibe to ‘this is what a sports car at its top speed must feel like’. While both of those things are deemed a necessity for human survival, when it comes to your vagina this probably isn’t the case. Once inserted the vibration can be hard to detect and really isn’t that pleasurable as a function on its own. If you are using it externally for clitoral stimulation to get ‘there’, this can dramatically decrease your physical sensitivity, creating a numbness, which you may have noticed already. Not only this, but are we creating unrealistic sex goals, artificial pleasure and not enjoying an intimate moment because we are thinking, “my vibrator could do a better job”.

 

 

2. Avoid petrochemicals and plastics

 

Yeah you guessed it, your vagina doesn’t like chemicals inside of it. Sadly, the majority of sex toys on the market are made from fake metals and plastics that contain BPA, dyes and petrochemicals, and lets not forget the lubes that you often get with them (when you could be using some delicious coconut oil with your new smooth and natural crystal lover). Once inside you these nasties are easily absorbed into the body and can really mess with the bacteria of your vagina, as well as your overall health and wellbeing. No thanks!

 

 

3. Create healthy sexual habits

 

As humans we are often goal oriented, this is totally imperative when it comes to life productivity and getting shit done. NOT so much when it comes to self-pleasure.  We have all been there, smashing it out to reach the goal of finally ‘climaxing’ whilst most likely watching porn or using a vibrator to totally obliterate yourself.  The same can be said with sex. Much of the time the whole act of sex is based around both members quickly trying to orgasm, to feel good, then BOOM, done and off to the shower.

I feel like we deserve more than that, that our body deserves more than that! We have the ability to feel amazing for a reason, why rush it? When using a crystal dildo you really have to slow down, tune in and take the time to feel everything. You learn to love your body, to pleasure your body on new levels, as you begin to respect and love it. Not to mention, in doing this, you learn how to give yourself the best climaxes of your life!

 

Our world is already so out of touch, we get indoctrinated with what we should look like, what sex should look like, how we should feel and the list goes on…the least we can do is take our time with ourselves and really nourish our body in an orgasmic way!

 

 

 

 

4. Increase sensitivity, pleasure and libido

 

Okay but seriously, who doesn’t want more pleasure? For the women feeling a lack of libido (feeling not bothered to even pleasure oneself), I implore you to start playing with yourself using a healing crystal dildo. Doing this will start a new round of sexual energy, which is easily converted into creative and productive energy that can be utilised in your day to day life. Also… DOPAMINE! YAAAS!

By giving up your vibrator this means no more numbing yourself out (physically and emotionally). You now have a chance to really connect and feel. The more sensitive your vagina is (aka, the more you can feel), the more pleasure you are going to experience (not only in bed, but in life). For example, imagine eating something with only half of your taste buds present; this is what MOST women experience when it comes to sexual encounters and what they can feel.

 

When you create a practice around using your crystal dildo it can awaken areas of the vagina that may have never experienced sensation before!  The more we pay attention to ourselves in a loving way, the more room there is for expansion and enjoyment. Say hellllllo to euphoria and self-fulfillment. 

 

5. Heal past traumas

 

For many centuries crystals have been used to assist with healing, as they are believed to hold pure and various forms of energy. For women, most of our buried emotions and traumas are stored in our Sacral and Root Chakras (or our womb space). These energy centres (chakras) relate to our sexuality, safety, creativity and power. By bringing a crystals energy into your own, it has the potential to shift blockages and heal traumas, as well as bringing greater understanding to ones self and experiences.

 

So why not explore your body and find out which crystal dildo is the perfect fit for you >>> here ;)

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